The Trauma Cleaner: One Woman's Extraordinary Life in the Business of Death, Decay, and Disaster

This is essentially two books intertwined. One is about a person who was worse than neglected as a child and never really fit in anywhere, including gender assignment. I think that this saga is the more horrific. The other is about the under appreciated services provided by those who are tasked with cleaning the aftermath of murder, neglect, and more. This is something that few people have to see and smell besides law enforcement and certain types of social workers. The amazing thing is how kind and empathetic Sandra is to the living and the stresses they face despite her own terrible history. I certainly don't mean that her employees are unkind, and I surely couldn't do their jobs. The book is well written, but also very difficult to read because of its content. People need to be aware of the long lasting harm done to some people and also of the incredible people who come in and clean up in unbelievable situations. I requested and received a free review copy via NetGalley. In 2020 I was able to buy a permanent audio copy and feel that the narrator is truly exceptional.

Amazing read. Weeks later, still recollect moments from the book; especially whenever I start to feel sorry for myself. Heartily recommend this beautifully written book about a woman who endured human failings, cruelty, and situations that would traumatize most people (no pun intended), and In spite of being repeatedly beat down--literally and figuratively--still manage to transmute ugliness into compassion, beauty, and grace. The protagonist shares unvarnished, brutal truths about her life that most wouldn't have the courage to admit under the best of circumstances. I was captivated by her strength, vulnerability, and self-deprecating humor even while cringing at what she endured. This is a Phoenix-rising-from-ashes' story that is elevated by extraordinary writing. This book doesn't end; it lingers in the best possible way. Spoiler Alert: The photos at the end of the book are wonderful.

This author paints a vivid picture of Sandra, to the point I almost feel that I know her. This book is elegantly written, witty, heartbreaking, and HONEST. Couldn't recommend it more.